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3 Kinds of Parenting Styles You Should Know About

It’s common knowledge that how you treat your child as they grow will make or break them as a person.

To give you an idea on how to raise your child, here are 4 of the most popular types of parenting style:

Authoritarian

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This type of parenting is where the parent’s decision is the only decision that the child will ever know. One of the perks of this type is the kid’s need to follow a set of rules closely because they know that there will be consequences if they don’t.

On the other hand, because their opinions are invalidated, these kids tend to have lower self-esteem and often times lie so that they won’t get scolded by their parents.

Permissive

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Permissive is the complete opposite of authoritarian. Here, although parents try their best to set-up rules, they don’t enforce it as much as authoritarian parents do. In this case, kids will most likely have behavioral problems because they think what they’re doing are always right.

Authoritative

This is a balanced authoritarian type. In here, the parents’ set-up rules make sure that their children adhere to it but at the same time tell them what the point of the rules is. They value their child’s emotions and personal opinion which results in balanced growth. What others fail to understand is that the kind of personality their child has also have an impact on how they accept these parenting styles. This is the reason why one parenting style might work on one child but cannot be the same as another.

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4-Point Comparison of Child Care and Parental Care

As parents, we know how hard it is to decide whether to quit work and stay at home just to be with your kids or just hire a child care provider so that you can continue working and provide for your family.

So, to help you decide, we have compiled 4 points that would help you decide whether to quit your job or to enroll your kid in child care.

Finances

Child care services are not affordable. This is why even couples who both have work still struggle pay for it. Now, if you are not financially stable, maybe you and your significant other could come up with a simple calculation as to which alternative you can use depending on your income level.

This is quite a logical way to come up with a decision since you make use of factual information in order to arrive at a conclusion.

Benefits

The number of benefits a child can get from child care is as much benefit that they can get from parental care. For child care centers, it is expected for them to provide children with developmental activities so that as they take care of them, they could also slowly improve them.

On the other hand, studies show how important it is to for a child to grow with a parent constantly by their side.

Disadvantages

If a parent chooses to stay at home, their children might develop their social skills at a later age since they don’t have anyone to mingle with, except if you are the kind of parent who loves going out to parks and letting your children play with the others. On the other hand, if you want to make use of a child care provider, children may spend too much time there and have no time for you when you get home, thus, reducing the parent-child time altogether. In addition to that if your child has a low immune system, bringing them to another place without your supervision could expose them to harm.

But, if you choose to stay, there is a high chance that you’ll experience fatigue from juggling all the house chores, attending to your kid’s needs, and teaching them how to do stuff.

Societal Judgments

Some people would criticize parents who left their children in another person’s care just to earn money while others judge a parent who chooses to stay at home and not help with the finances. Now, if you can stomach this kind of judgments and just let them pass by, then you will not have any problem. But, if you are the type which takes all things seriously, then you will surely have a hard time deciding which one to pick. The endpoint of this is the concept of compromise. If you want one, then you have to sacrifice the other. You can’t get the best of both worlds. Although, it is also possible for you to do parts of each choice if you want to continue working but at the same time be free to take care of your child.

Some parents think that doing part-time jobs could do the trick but right now home-based jobs are becoming very popular and that is something that a striving parent like you should consider trying.

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7 Types of Child Care Services You Should Know About

Most parents resort to child care services because of how busy they are with work. Unlike before where men only do the work and women were left in homes, the millennial era seems to insinuate that both parties must work to provide a better and brighter future for their child. To be honest, there’s nothing wrong with that because that would mean that you value providing comfort for your family. But, what about your child? Who will be the one to take care of them if both of you are out to work? This is where child care services step in.

Here are some of the most popular child care services available:

Child Care/Long Day Care Center

For children who are not yet admissible to school, this type of service provider will look after your kid while you are work. Of course, while they are in their care, they will provide them with some activities that could help develop their cognitive and behavioral traits.

Family Day Care

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This kind of child care service makes use of experienced carers that take your children in their own homes while you are away. They also provide developmental activities to ensure good growth for your child. They mainly cater to children who haven’t started school yet but sometimes they break that rule and take in children up to 12 years of age.

Pre-School

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This is already a part of an educational program which means that in order for you to leave your child here, they must be at the proper age. However, unlike day care centers, pre-school only teaches children half-day, thus, needing an additional service to employ.

Outside School House Care

We have mentioned that for pre-school, children only stay in half-day which is the reason why outside schoolhouse care is highly needed. This kind of care caters to children before and after they go to school and even on holidays.

Flexible Care Services

There are parents who work on a contractual basis or on-call duties. Once this is the case, it will be hard to know when they’d be called in for work. Because of this setting, flexible care services would gladly take over to watch over your child. In other words, they are just one call away.

In-home Care

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If family day care grants carers to bring the kids in their own home, in-home care requires the carer to go to their clients’ house and perform their task there. In-home care is normally used by families who do not employ the standard child care services or when their needs are not met by a certain service provider.

Nanny

If you have been thinking that a carer is basically a nanny, then you are wrong from the very beginning. A nanny and a carer, although performing a lot of similar duties, are not the same.

Nannies’ duties are limited to child care and other domestic tasks that are directly related to child care. On the other hand, a carer is a licensed professional who does more than take care of the child since they also provide activities that will develop a growing child. Regardless of which service you employ, as a parent, you must make sure to put your child’s needs above all else. Evaluate each option accordingly so that you will have the right solution for your dilemmas. Spend some time researching about each service provider before hiring them.

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5 Aspects of Child’s Growth Affected by Foster Care

Foster care is an arrangement wherein adults temporarily take children whose birth parents don’t have the capacity to take care of them under their wing. As opposed to adoption, the main goal of foster care is to eventually reunite the child with their birth parent.

Although, adoption through kinship care is also acceptable at certain times especially when it is in the child’s best interest. A good foster home can make or break a person. This is the reason why it is important that you know the aspects that will be affected once a child who went through a very bad past becomes fostered.

This way, a foster parent can employ measures to make sure that they grow up well and little by little, leave their troubled past behind.

Social

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Usually, youth who have undergone fostering fall behind their age group. Few of the effects that this set-up might produce are late personality development and a tendency to distance themselves due to the age gap. As parents, what you can do is to encourage them to mingle while treating them the same way you would treat someone in the same age.

Mental

Especially for the children who can already understand bits and pieces of what happened before they were fostered, it is very common for a child to have mental trauma. Take note that a change of environment doesn’t solve the problem.

Although, having someone to catch them and take care of them makes a huge difference. This is due to the foster family being able to provide the child with mental health care service, thus, addressing the problem.

Physical

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Due to an unstable environment that a child was exposed to, their physical growth may not be what it was supposed to be if they were exposed in a more stable environment. This is one of the easiest aspects that you, as a parent can deal with because supervision with regards to the nutrition they consume as well as occasional exercises will suffice.

In some cases, hiring a nutritionist may also be considered if their current state is way behind that what you expected.

Emotional

Most of the time, children who have been separated from their birth parents have undergone emotional pressure and even torture. This causes massive trauma in their lives which could continue even after moving on to a new family. If you feel that your foster child constantly breaks-down or exhibits other disturbing behavior, have them checked by behavioral health and developmental services. Eventually, you’ll see an impressive improvement in their behavior.

Moral

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Curses coming out from the mouth of a 9-year old is not new anymore especially when they’ve undergone so much trauma at such a young age. Sometimes, to serve as a defense mechanism, they will shut off everyone who wants to get close to them by treating them badly. As foster parents, instead of fighting fire with fire, let’s keep our heads down and slowly ease them up until they give in.

These children, they are just victims. And so, as adults, we need to understand that there are no shortcuts to healing those wounds. If you are truly serious in giving these children a chance, shower them with love, care, and support. Be patient with them and give them the medical attention that they need.

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3 Signs that Your Childcare Service Provider Is Not the Right Fit

The current structure of our society mostly requires both parents to go to work in order to provide a better future for their children. With this status, it cannot be denied that one of the biggest parental issues that we face today is who stays behind to watch over the children. Because of this dilemma, childcare service companies started to emerge. Their main goal is to provide the parents with the time that they need without sacrificing the welfare of the child.

However, not every childcare service provider does a good job and if you have encountered these 3 signs, then it may be time for you and your provider to go your separate ways.

Avoids Communication with You

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In order to track your child’s progress and behavior, it is common to ask the nanny how their day went and if ever there were events that the parents need to know of. However, if it seems like the nanny is trying to shift the topic to avoid the conversation, then there must be something happening that you have to know about. Take this as your first red flag and start being observant.

Frequent Staff Changes

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Does your nanny change week after week? If that is the case then there must be something wrong with how the service company handles their workers. Once you notice how frequent the change is, you might start reconsidering renewing their service.

A child needs someone who they can talk to, share their experience, and listen whenever you aren’t there. If changes happen all the time, the nanny may not be able to get what the child says which might lead to the child halting their urge to share more.

Concerns Left Unattended

If you have already raised some concerns towards the person working for you or even the company itself, but no changes can be seen from their actions then it really is time to turn your back and never look back. Stop waiting for them, let them now that you are not playing especially when it’s your child that’s involved.

There are times where you feel like you need a push in order to proceed with your decision, you can actually reach out to a community of people who understands where you are coming from and learn from them as well.